Happy New Year

Well i intended to make an end of the year type post last night but the drive of 2 hrs each way and the trafic and the just dealing with being sick and stuff it did not happen. So updates for everyone.. So Christmas eve i got a call that dad was back in the hospital again, i was worried but not extremely his health has been a bit of a teeter totter the past couple of months they are working at getting him stable. Then Christmas day i get a call from my dads girlfriends grandson, clear as mud yet, He says my dad is trying to kill his grandma, bull... i said, he inisits and says a restraining order is in the works, my dad gets transfered from the hospital to a skilled nursing unit (nursing home) and i realize that this is bad. Day after christmas dad is served with a restraining order, that means he cannot go home. I get ready and fly to calif, which is where i am now, in the mean time she takes all of his social security out of his bank accout(it was a joint account but is his money) and loads all his stuff in the suburban and it is a mess. So now i am at my grandmothers home, it is great to see my grandma, but i still have broncitis, and am stressed out about taking care of my dad who will be released any day from the nursing home, and has no home to return to. I am still coughing so hard as to almost pass out am exausted and hope to actually start feeling better soon, going to call the drs office tomorrow that i have been on the antibiotics almost a week and am not better yet. Andrew luckly is with his dad and can stay there as long as necessary, but hopefully not too long. I hope to be home the first part of next week at the latest. So one of my resolutions was to post more often, but might have to wait until i get home.